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Sunday Spiral Survival : 4 Mindsets + 4 Moves

The weekend spiral of depression often crashes hardest on Sunday morning. That’s when the illusion of freedom fades. The high, the excitement, the hype of TGIF fades. Friday, and even Saturday are all but forgotten. Already you are slipping back…

Cultivating the art of the sacred pause.

You dread those days when “everything” sucks! Bad news everywhere. And then, your phone rings. It’s that person. The one who always brings drama.  You haven’t even answered yet, and your stomach’s already tight. Ulcer loading! You know how this…

Oh no!! “IT IS WHAT IT IS!” Let’s just give up already!

Are you communicating with confidence? Maybe not! Especially if you are habitually injecting this phrase in your conversations: “It is what it is.” Ah yes, the philosophical equivalent of shrugging while Rome burns.One of the most spiritually bankrupt phrases we’ve…

The Myth of the “Leader” A Buzzword in a Suit

You’re in an elevator. Boss turns: “Define leadership. Go.” You stammer. “Uhm… yeah well… something about vision? Inspiring others?” You just became a human LinkedIn post. Congrats, you’ve exposed leadership’s dirtiest secret: it’s often smoke and buzzwords. Here’s the truth:…

Echoes we mistook for gods!

Say what you mean. Get the language for the life you want. Doing just that, by culling rotten phrases,took me a while. I was in school when the first god cast a shadow over my pathetically small worldview. “You need…

Should I roll over the edge, or jump?

My first encounters with depression and anxiety did not start only in my early 20s, but that coincided with the time when I got conscripted, and I had to write down the D Word, on paper, for the first time.…